It’s not always straightforward when you have to decide who you want to spend the rest of your life with. God speak to us in different ways. Most time you don’t really know or you might be in denial .why? Because you don’t like what you see ,but you can feel it in your heart that he or she is the one. You might not like the package , but that is your partner . My advice is to pray and ask God to show you the sign . Leave your mind open and let the spirit of God leads you. I remember I pray to God to close my eyes and my heart to any man that will break my heart , but if a right man comes, God should open my eyes so l will not miss him and believe me God answer my prayer . You can hear my story on my YouTube channel . “How l met my Husband ” Do not be deceived by what you see. Look can be deceiving.